isinya adalah tweets dari @alexandrarheaw tokoh dari novel karangan Ika Natassa
28 April 2012
This whole day fiasco: structuring Adrian's loan. Udah minum aspirin gue pagi-pagi. Didn't sleep until 2 AM last night.
For the past weeks, I've been receiving lots of mentions yang bilang a lot of you fall in love with Beno and want a husband like him.
Sampe ada yang nanya gue: nyari di mana lagi yang kayak gitu? ;)
Mengikuti nasihat si @winasoedarjo dulu, I just wanna say: it's impossible for us to find a perfect spouse if we model him/her...
...towards someone, atau toward our own sets of criteria.
The world just doesn't work that way. We're not God yang bisa bikin orang sempurna, sesuai dengan semua yang kita mau.
But we can try to find someone that just works. That when you and that someone are together, you both just work.
Despite all the hiccups and each other's shortcomings, imperfections, and flaws.
Banyak dari Beno yang mau gue ubah, sama seperti banyak dari gue yang pasti dia juga mau ubah.
Countless. Banyak banget.
Tapi terus, mau nunggu kami bisa mengubah each other dulu, according to our ideal mindset baru bisa nerima? Nggak, kan?
Terus, kalau emang kami berdua berubah sesuai yang diinginkan masing-masing, are we still the same person we both fall in love with?
So you know why you get the impression from my tweets that he is somewhat perfect? Because to me, he just works.
He and I work, despite our flaws and fights and all that.
Sure we;re making adjustments with each other as we go supaya bisa jalan hubungannya, tapi ada beberapa hal yang left unchanged dan memang harus di-accept aja.
Jadi nasihat gue buat lo semuanya: stop trying to find the perfect spouse according to your own ideal.
Just find someone who just works with you. That's all that matters.
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komen gw: oke deh tante :)
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